August 2010
38 posts
thanks tumblr
I hit a rough patch and that “kindness of strangers” absolutely rules. I hope I can do the same for you someday, the helping-you-get-through it. Thank you, sincerely.
Aug 9th
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Aug 8th
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Aug 7th
no words more than
I think he’s gone.
Aug 7th
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Aug 7th
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Aug 7th
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starstruck
Um, okay, two of my favorite tumblr people who are (in my mind) kinda celebrity tumblr people started following me and now I feel like I should do something interesting. I won’t, of course, do anything differently. Still, it’s amazing how the littlest things can gimme a little boost.
Aug 7th
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Aug 7th
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Aug 7th
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danforth said: Er, looking at your text, I’m...
bettylies-: alisonagosti: No, you are supposed to do that.  That’s how rules work.  Someone says, “Hey this is how we do a thing,” and then you do it that way.  Like two spaces after a period.  Just like that.  Just.  Like.  That. When I studied journalism, it pained me to follow AP Stylebook guidelines of a single space after a period. But I did it, and liked it. Once you go...
Aug 7th
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RyanJJohn: controversy no.2: married, no kids,... →
cleapow: … Ok, I’ve been good all week and I know, I know, I am the number one proponent of boobs not drama. However, I REALLY take exception to this comment. Marriage is FAR more than children. Children do not make a marriage. Children are the outcome of sex between two people. Children can… The way I read it is marriage is even more permanent once children come into the...
Aug 7th
Aug 6th
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apricotica asked: Yeah, dude, it is that you have to know someone. Best I can do is offer you the list of silly questions I've come up with for emergency askhole situations. Which have been asked of others, but seldom answered with aplomb or panache. Ahem.

1.You're kicking someone's ass. (They totally deserve it.) You get to choose the sound track to this well-deserved...
Aug 6th
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Aug 6th
Write one leaf describing what you do when Twitter...
(via writeoneleaf) It usually takes me a while to figure it out because I usually use brizzly.com which can be pretty wonky. Once I realize Twitter’s down, I usually leave my computer. I’m more likely to walk away than, say, get to work like I should’ve been doing in the first place.
Aug 6th
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Aug 5th
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Aug 5th
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Aug 5th
Photo Tampering Throughout History →
Aug 5th
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Aug 5th
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Aug 4th
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#tmituesday
Going on a bit on twitter about my hand-held showerhead that I adore. The wonders are new to me and will help me manage this BULLSHIT SEXLESS STATUS I’m living in for a while. I thought of a tweet but decided not to send it for a variety of reasons but I will share the thought here. Only downside to my new love, the hand-held showerhead? Potential for passing out seems pretty dangerous.
Aug 4th
Aug 4th
truthful tuesday
I took photos of me today, some to show my sadness, some to show what I had in my pocket all day (a finger attachable mini-vibrator) and I see myself and think I look like a fucking deformed alien.
Aug 3rd
sad
I had a wonderful talk with a friend (offline) today but I reached into a sadness I’ve been working hard to bury. I’m sure I’ll blog about it later, but this seems to be an arena where I dump extra-personal items when other options don’t seem quite right.
Aug 3rd
Aug 3rd
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truthful tuesday
In the greatest sex memory of my life we had on all our clothes and didn’t even unfasten anything. Maybe someday that one’ll be bested, but I can’t see how.
Aug 3rd
Aug 3rd
handheld shower head
The most worthwhile $15 and 8 minutes of light plumbing installation time, ever. I honestly think that’s why I flooded my fuckin’ tweet stream with smiley emoticons tonight.
Aug 3rd
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Aug 3rd
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just a short meme →
Aug 2nd
Aug 2nd
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Aug 2nd
to my hot landlord
I really do appreciate the offer, but I’m afraid if you were helping me paint my daughter’s room at night while the girls slept and while your pregnant wife and child were next door I might jump your fuckin’ bones and that wouldn’t be good for anyone. Except maybe my libido for about 20 minutes before the shame and remorse set in.
Aug 2nd
Aug 2nd
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Aug 2nd
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Aug 1st
Aug 1st
YAY YAY YAY YAY YAY!!!
Okay, so, yes, there has been sadness. Mostly sadness because of how hard this has been/will be for my 7 year old. BUT, even though I really sincerely do love my STBX, tonight’s his first night in his own place and I AM FUCKIN’ PSYCHED! God, I feel like 160 (I have no idea) pounds has been lifted off of me. I can breathe! I’m motivated to do all sorts of stuff I’ve felt too...
Aug 1st
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July 2010
119 posts
sex
Masturbation gets really boring after a while. Having a satisfying partner is so much better. FUCK
Jul 31st
“There are now over 100 ongoing conflicts and crisis in world, and despite the...”
– Socialisimo (via socialisimo)
Jul 31st
Jul 31st
writing critique
I posted something on my blog I called “vessel” http://www.tsaphanbabe.net/ and I sincerely don’t know if the writing is garbage (over-the-top sappy) or if it’s decent. If you like honestly critiquing writing, I’d be thrilled if you’d take a look and comment. I have no problem with negative reactions. :-) Turning off the computer for the day. Thanks in advance,...
Jul 31st
vessel →
He’s riding a horse, or a horse-drawn wagon, or maybe it’s a dust covered bike or motorcycle. He’s been riding for hours. The horse is sweating, coated with dirt from the road. The rhythm of the…
Jul 31st
Jul 31st
twitter over there
Biggest downside to having STBX following me on twitter is I can’t tweet about him and his (married) girlfriend. Dammit. They’re fun to tweet about. I think tweets about them in my head a lot.
Jul 30th
celebrity special →
When I suggested we meet, it struck me an unusual move on my part. Normally I’d only do that if I knew a lot about the person and wanted to know more. In this case, I know hardly anything about him….
Jul 30th
please tell me how it is for you (public sex) →
As I walked toward a couple in Portland today, they leaned up against a building and started really going at it. Like, pressing into each other, etc. I saw it out of the corner of my eye, but had to…
Jul 30th